Yesterday was 9/11. I also had a wound check-up scheduled. On the way to the appointment, we passed Heartworks House, where the memorial ceremony was taking place. Knowing that I had to take care of my health, I still didn’t want to be going to the doctor. On this day of all days, I wanted to be at that memorial supporting my friends. Thankfully, I had the Heartworks meeting to look forward to last night (via Skype) and it did my soul a world of good because …
My check-up did not go well and I was bummed. Last week, the doctor declared the wound healed and stopped the stem cell treatment, even though I have the availability of three more applications of the treatment. I had an uneasy feeling from that moment on and it would not go away. I should feel so much happier hearing that the wound was healed. Why didn’t I feel like shouting the news from the rooftops and celebrating? Well, now I know. The wound is not fully healed … NOT YET. In the past week, the wound opened up slightly–those pesky .2 centimeters (2 millimeters)–a minuscule amount, but distressing nonetheless. So, I started “shoulding” all over myself.
I should have listened to my intuition.
I should have known this thing wasn’t healed yet.
I should have insisted on continuing the treatment.
I didn’t and I was pissed off at myself.
Was all hope lost? No. We are resuming the treatment next Monday, and I have faith that it will work and the wound will heal completely. Still, the nagging questions and negative thoughts linger in my worn-out brain.
What if I this thing doesn’t heal?
What if I did have the surgery? Would it have worked and would I be up and about by now?
What if I wasted this whole year?
Then, it hit me… I was wasting time on “should haves” and “what ifs.” It’s a huge waste of friggin’ time, my friends, and it doesn’t do any good. It’s counterproductive and it just makes you feel worse. You can’t change the past, but you can make changes in the present that positively affect your future.
What I can do going forward is:
Regain my positive outlook.
Keep saying and writing my positive affirmations, especially “I am healthy.”, “I make healthy decisions.” and “My derrière continues to heal.”
Continue to reach out to you, my InspiraGang, when I need a boost of encouragement.
Please keep the prayers, positive vibes, cards, letters and visits coming. In fact, I would love it if you would post some positive thoughts in the comments below.
Oh, and please share the link to this blog with your friends, family and colleagues.
Thank you for being there for me, InspiraGang. You heal me and I am eternally grateful.
Until next week,